9/18/06
What a trip to the town of
I was accompanied by my young neighbor Andrew. He is typical of almost all Kenyans, except for going to
The next day, we took another taxi to
Founder Annette Russ chronicles her experiences working to educate and empower girls and women in rural Kenya.
9/18/06
What a trip to the town of
I was accompanied by my young neighbor Andrew. He is typical of almost all Kenyans, except for going to
The next day, we took another taxi to
My time is speeding by in Kakamega. Once again, now that I have returned, people have begun to trust me and open up and I have learned a great deal about Kenyan culture. Today I learned that Kenyans work very hard to avoid confrontation. I believe this is because they are such a close knit society and conflict between people disrupts the entire group. Therefore, there is a lot of pressure for people to resolve conflicts in a different way. The most common way to deal with conflict is to use very diplomatic language to create a situation in which there is no chance for a conflict to arise. I have encountered this method while dealing with people here but have a difficult time understanding because they use a lot of underlying innuendo to convey the message and I know I am quite often missing the point.
Another thing I have discovered is that Kenyans rely on formally organized groups to form bonds outside of their family and neighborhood and they believe strongly in the power of groups to educate and to empower people as well. Being unoccupied in Kenyan is really looked down on, those people are called “idlers.” Therefore, by participating in a group and making an effort to better yourself and your situation is seen as a good alternative to being idle. It seems that the goal of many of the groups is to work on ways to improve their communities. One of the youth groups that my young neighbor belongs to is in the process of finding ways to recycle plastic bottles and bags. Oh, by the way, I mentioned before that I was tutoring Andrew in a few subjects while I am here and now I am also teaching him dog training as well. Of course I am the expert because A) I am crazy about dogs and B) I watch the Dog Whisperer regularly on TV. Anyway, Andrew is very entrepreneurial and sees dog training as maybe being a lucrative business in
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Finally, everyday I see many things that just make me sad. On the boda boda ride on the way to work every morning, I pass a vacant lot near downtown Kakamega where several men in very ragged clothes are sitting around a fire. It is the official place for homeless men to congregate during the night. There is a lot of garbage dumped near there and I usually see a couple of guys picking through the garbage. When you pass by during the daytime, you see lots of old worn out coats that are hung all over the signs. These are the coats that these men use to keep warm at night. Yesterday I saw an old man hobbling down the street without any shoes, which is not that unusual here. But the awful thing is that his feet were swollen to about 3 times the normal size and looked unbelievably painful. And today at the hospital, there was a naked woman with just a blanket wrapped around her waist, walking on the hospital path shouting incoherently while people just passed by without taking much notice of her. So many times here I have heard the comment from people that unless a sick person has the money for medical treatment, they are just left to die like an animal. Can you imagine such a place existing in this day and age where resources are so scarce that no resources are “wasted” on the sick and the weak. The best word I can use to describe what I experience in